Violence
In this book, I refer to violence a lot, and it's important to have a clear definition. I consider violence in a very wide context, like this definition that I love (thanks ChatGPT):
“In the context of the eight limbs of yoga, violence itself is generally described as any action or intention that causes harm or suffering to oneself or others. This harm can be physical, verbal, or mental in nature. It encompasses acts of aggression, hostility, cruelty, and any form of behavior that disrupts harmony and peace. The concept of violence extends beyond just physical harm to include emotional and psychological harm as well…”
Further, the definition as well encompasses self-violence. We blame a lot of the problems of the world on ourselves, and it's really important to know that it's not our fault. It really isn't. I tell that to everyone I know. Almost any pandemic violent affliction you have is almost certainly systemic, meaning that the system (our system that we created and manage) has somehow (we know how) made you desperate, and desperation instinctually leads to violence, and that's a normal reaction.
Inversely, violence causes desperation, that's the systemic problem - chaos is violence, lack of planning is violence, let alone abuse, greed, and manipulation. It's our system - it's not our fault we are here, it grew organically, but it is our responsibility.
Violence and desperation are cyclical and can be broken by proper planning and order.
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The exact opposite of a collective is a resort.
This is confusing, I know, because I keep telling you that collectives look like resorts. One is fantasy and the other is real-life. You can't buy paradise, but - you and your friends can build it.
In a resort, we have a completely unsustainable superficial paradise paid for by guests and serviced mainly by poor people. That's abuse. Similar arrangements occur in cities with class divides: restaurants and hotels. The reasons are the same: the entire hospitality industry is bought and paid for and serviced by the poor. But you can't buy hospitality any more than you can buy love.
Malls are so well maintained and look like a futuristic society, but it's really artificial just like the resort. Ask yourself why mall store retailers can charge higher prices.
Figure: Alto Palermo, Buenos Aires, Argentina